Philanthropy should not only be purposeful but fun. Check out these fun and informative conversations with Rena Olsen of the Uncommon Philanthropist Show.
I’ve Written a Children’s Book About Joy. So Why Am I Crying?
My mother, Maxine, died from Alzheimer’s disease in 1997. But in truth, we began losing her long before her passing. Dementia is a cruel, progressive disease—there’s no healing, no recovery. Watching someone you love fade slowly, even when they are still physically present, is one of life’s most difficult heartbreaks.
Some days were good, others unbearably painful. When your own mother can’t remember your name, it cuts deeply. The emotional rollercoaster for her, for us, was relentless. It was especially hard for those managing the caregiving and in closest proximity to her, my sister, Pat, and my dad. I was some 1,500 miles away.
My mom has been at peace for over 28 years now, I believe fully healed and in heaven with our loved ones and those who’ve passed on before her. I’ve had time to grieve her loss and heal my own heart. But I will always miss her love and presence in my life every single day until we have our own heavenly reunion.
That part of the story is old news.
What’s new is that the persistent desire in my heart—to honor her life and raise money for Alzheimer’s-related causes—has finally come to life.
The result is Maxine’s Joy, a children’s book inspired by my mother’s life. All profits will support Alzheimer’s research and help families affected by the disease.
Along the Way
I was confident I could handle the logistics: writing the book, finding the perfect illustrator, navigating publishing and distribution, promoting it all on my own. I’ve managed and executed a number of creative projects before—I thought I had this covered.
What I didn’t anticipate was how emotional the journey would be.
My sister Pat and I have cried fresh tears as we sifted through memories of Mom. We’ve laughed too—reminiscing about her strength, her silliness, her joy. We’ve racked our brains trying to remember the details of her childhood: How young was she when she had to leave school and work in the fields? How did that not break her?
I recently learned about epigenetics—the science of how trauma can be passed down through generations. How amazing is that? I will proudly carry my mother’s burdens as a way of honoring her life and legacy.
Focusing on what made my mom so special—her unshakeable joy—has only deepened my love and admiration for her. Especially knowing all she endured.
The memory of a loved one can easily fade with time. Taking a deep dive into my mom’s life has made me feel closer to her. I’m delighted that my children and grandchildren will know more about her, too and future generations from the branches of our family tree.
I love that kids and families around the world will learn about joy through her story. That they’ll say her name, Maxine, and talk about what it means to chase after joy.
I hope it provides a ray of hope for families impacted by Alzheimer’s disease. That it opens the doors for productive, healing conversations between families, parents and children.
That it raises funding for Alzheimer’s research and causes.
I wasn’t prepared for the flood of emotion that would come, which keeps on flowing even as I write this.
A mother’s love is one of the greatest gifts we will ever receive. It’s a gift that keeps on giving but only if we hone in and realize the love is still very much there.
Love is love, it knows no earthly boundaries. It does not expire or fail to exist just because our loved one is no longer physically present.
“Love never fails.” — 1 Corinthians 13:8
And I thought writing a children’s book would be easy…
Maxine’s Joy is available on Amazon and wherever books are sold. All profits will be donated to various charitable causes supporting Alzheimer’s research and families living through the disease.
Texas: Pray. Give. Go.
A word from Rena
Thank You for Answering the Call as an Uncommon Philanthropist
Our brothers and sisters in Kerr County, Texas, are hurting—and they need our help.
There are many ways you can support the flood victims in Kerr County through prayer, donations, and volunteering. We've compiled a list of some outstanding organizations on the ground, doing the good and difficult work of loving and serving our neighbors.
Whether you give today, volunteer tomorrow, or simply continue to lift them in prayer, you are making a difference.
Please take a moment to donate now—and as opportunities arise, consider offering your time in the future. Most importantly, keep praying.
Together, we can bring hope where it's needed most.
Nonprofits Serving in the Area
Local community foundations are always a great option to support when following a natural disaster. Community foundations are already on the ground and know the local leaders and nonprofits serving in that area.
Kerr County Flood Relief, Community Foundation of the Texas Hill Country
https://cftexashillcountry.fcsuite.com/erp/donate/create/fund?funit_id=4201
Grants from the Fund will support nonprofit organizations, first responder agencies, and local governments actively involved in response, relief, and recovery efforts. The foundation is committed to channeling resources to the trusted organizations working tirelessly to help neighbors in need. Donate online or mail to:
Community Foundation of the Texas Hill Country, 241 Earl Garrett Street, Kerrville, Texas 78028.
For other community foundations providing relief in the area, visit: https://www.cftexas.org/about-cft/blog-and-newsroom/support-for-central-texas/
Texans on Mission
Hill Country Flood Relief
Within hours of the waters cresting, Texans on Mission Disaster Relief leaders were mobilizing through churches to assess the damage. Texans on Mission trained chaplains were on site immediately to provide spiritual and emotional support to the tight-knit community facing this unimaginable tragedy. The emotional toll placed on the families affected by the floods is heavy. They are hurting and desperately searching for hope.
https://www.texansonmission.org/hill-country-flooding?segmentCode=HC0725WB1
TEXSAR (Texas Search and Rescue) – Emergency Relief
TEXSAR is responding to requests for support to the floods affecting Kerr County, and beyond, in Texas. In response, TEXSAR is deploying volunteer "ground pounders," swiftwater teams, boats, drone teams, K9s and whatever else requesting agencies require. Donations are request to ensure that TEXSAR can respond fully for as long as needed. TEXSAR never stops.
Samaritan’s Purse
Samaritan’s Purse North American Ministries (NAM) and the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association’s Rapid Response Team (BGEA-RRT) have deployed to hard-hit Kerr County, Texas. Samaritan's Purse mobilizes staff and equipment and enlists thousands of volunteers to provide emergency aid to victims of tornadoes, hurricanes, wildfires, floods, and other natural disasters in the United States. The organization often stays behind after the initial response to rebuild or restore houses for needy families. I have volunteered with Samaritan’s Purse before, following Hurricane Helene in North Carolina, and they are an exceptional organization. Highly recommend.
Mercy Chefs
Mercy Chefs is providing hot, chef-prepared meals to victims, first responders, and volunteers in the days ahead. I have volunteered with Mercy Chefs—and interviewed founder Chef Gary Leblanc—and they run an exceptional organization. Highly recommend.
https://mercychefs.com/texas-flood-250704/
Convoy of Hope
Convoy of Hope is on the ground in the area, working with local partners to distribute relief supplies like food, water, cleaning kits, hygiene kits, and more to the thousands of people affected by this devastating storm.
Salvation Army-Emergency Disaster Services
Salvation Army Emergency Disaster Services (EDS) teams are working around the clock to provide meals, hydration and emotional and spiritual care in central Texas communities affect by the flooding.
https://give.helpsalvationarmy.org/give/166081/#!/donation/checkout?c_src=THQEDS&c_src2=alertBanner
Team Rubicon
Veteran-led disaster response nonprofit has begun deploying Greyshirts to the area, delivering disaster relief for Texas floods. Initial work to include removing vegetative debris blocking access to homes and providing muckout services for flooding survivors.
https://donate.teamrubiconusa.org/Donation/julytexasfloodingsupport/
Texans on Mission
Formerly Texas Baptist Men, has deployed chaplains to the area to provide emotional support and assist with clean-up and more.
https://texansonmission.org – Website homepage includes a form to donate and link to volunteer. To send donations by mail: Texans on Mission, 5301 Catron Drive, Dallas TX 75227 or by phone: (214) 275-1100
United Cajun Navy
Originally formed following Hurricane Katrina (New Orleans), the Cajun Navy is a non-profit all-volunteer disaster recovery relief group well versed in flood recovery. The Louisiana-based organization grew out of grassroots efforts in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina. Volunteers have been on the ground, and in the water, in the immediate aftermath of the flooding, assisting with search and recovery efforts.
To donate: https://unitedcajunnavy.org
Kerrville Pets Alive
A local nonprofit helping reunited pets with their families.
https://kerrvillepetsalive.com
Donate via Venmo: https://account.venmo.com/u/KerrvillePetsAlive
World Central Kitchen
Another outstanding organization on the group providing recovery workers and those impacted by the floods with fresh, nourishing meals.
Individual Fundraisers Through GoFundMe
Should you wish to donate to individuals or families impacted by the floods, consider GoFundMe. Per the GoFundMe website, “Donate to verified fundraisers and nonprofits for recent events in Texas that are providing on-the-ground help today. Our Trust & Safety team will continue to update this page with more fundraisers as they are verified for Texas relief efforts.”
https://www.gofundme.com/c/act/flood-relief#/
Improving the Human Condition: RTI International
Great leaders understand the power of philanthropy and its profound impact on corporate culture. Tim Gabel, CEO and President of RTI International, leads with excellence, integrity and heart. A proud graduate of the University of Wyoming, Tim joins Rena to reflect on their "Cowboy" days and how those formative experiences helped shape his leadership journey. In this insightful conversation, Tim shares how he's leading RTI through challenging times, the essential role of giving back, and the values that continue to guide his work and mission.
To learn more:
https://uncommonphilanthropist.org
Listen to Tim’s episode here or your favorite podcasting platforms:
YouTube: https://youtu.be/HiZfVQIp97c?si=LjiwXhyRfCmc_k0s
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5VU7R3zz2assoEQncO1XqV?si=S24RPAyESVCXQSmbGFqVTA
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncommon-philanthropist/id1774213804?i=1000716494532
A Place of HOPE: Heart for Africa
Heart for Africa is a faith-based humanitarian organization that focuses on bringing HOPE to the Kingdom of Eswatini, Africa in the areas of Hunger, Orphans, Poverty and Education. In this episode of Uncommon Philanthropist, you'll meet David Bryant, the Executive Director of Heart for Africa. David is here to share more about this truly outstanding organization. The word Yebo (in Eswatini ) means "Yes, I have seen." It is also OBEY spelled backwards. I know you will love this powerful story of faith, family and HOPE.
Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fcTGKtvffLk
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/04DaMA1Gib1SdCksbzFLHh?si=-gInvw08Qv2qnDuQrmURVQ
Apple Podcasts and your favorite podcasting listening platforms.
For more information:
https://uncommonphilanthropist
P.S. Don't miss this interview with Heart for Africa co-founder Janine Maxwell in 2019 on my Relevate Podcast! https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-ujxfk-c52ee2
Supply Chain of Hope: MAP International
Learn how pharmaceuticals nearing expiration date are being put to good use through the nonprofit MAP International and its many partners around the world. Charlie Iro, MAP's Community Engagement Manager, is here to share more about the organization's "Supply chain of hope".
https://uncommonphilanthropist.com
Watch on YouTube or your favorite podcast listening platforms:
YouTube: https://youtu.be/G6TlUPeBjFQ
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1eEOxjglbaVCrNn6jbXg1s?si=fqjmFDooRrGGJuLNUZyAHQ
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncommon-philanthropist/id1774213804?i=1000711014911
The Advocate for Accessible Parking
When adversity comes our way, know that it is often cloaked in opportunity. By allowing God in, know that healing, philanthropy and greater life purpose awaits—beyond the ashes of adversity.
Today you’ll meet my friend, Jawanza Lamar, the founder of an innovative organization called ParkingNSites, created to educate the general public and to help make parking easier and more accessible for people with physical disabilities. Jawanza’s story is one of love, purpose through adversity and uncommon philanthropy, let go!
To learn more:
https://uncommonphilanthropist.com
Watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/tBE-ODKa3sA
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4dfeaPcAIZcUobHTburK5q?si=7GbuNnv2QJOS_5oZr0TEkg
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncommon-philanthropist/id1774213804?i=1000708605603
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Requity Cares
Requity Foundation, located in West Baltimore's Rosemont community, is a shining example of what's possible through community empowerment. Elisha Johnson is here to share more about the nonprofit's innovative mission and how restoration of a unit in a formerly dilapidated row house is sparking imaginations and creating valuable work experience for students at Carter Vocational-Technical High School.
To learn more about this fabulous organization: https://requity.org
Check out the full episode you YouTube or your favorite podcast listening platforms:
YouTube: https://youtu.be/kcr3QiJfo7A?si=yk0GSM8OSIpJUZjE
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3YNZI65HhAOc28J7xe7KrB?si=8A2qGpcYQzWpRTmNWcFPaQ
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncommon-philanthropist/id1774213804?i=1000704610020
Providing Hope and Rescue for the Most Vulnerable: Love Justice
Listen in for an informative conversation about human trafficking and the inspiring work of Love Justice International to protect and serve the most vulnerable through prevention measures. Special thanks to Briony Fickling, Senior Anti-Trafficking Director and Cambri Driskell, Director of Volunteer Engagement, for sharing more about transit monitoring and the impact Love Justice is having around the world to “save the one”.
Watch on YouTube or your favorite podcasting listening platforms:
YouTube: https://youtu.be/c8kZpn0AL9c
Spotify: https://spotifycreators-web.app.link/e/QcvkudDtfSb
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uncommon-philanthropist/id1774213804
To learn more about Love Justice International:
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